Is This A “Chick Flick”?

I am sort of scared to watch this movie.  I’m definitely NOT fond of being beaten or tortured.  I cannot understand women that would like to be “cut” or whipped or raped or – lord knows what.

I’ve read some of the reviews online, though.  It looks like it glamorizes sexual violence to me.  The leading lady seems very immature and doesn’t know what she’s getting into.  I understand that many women don’t mind getting spanked – although I’d imagine that there would be many times where one couldn’t participate in BDSM sex because they would need to recover from the beatings & etc.

The “Recovery Phase” would make ME shy away from having BDSM sex – as I like to have it on a regular basis.  If one is recovering from a beating or even a spanking – then there would me no more of  THAT for a while.  It certainly would take even longer to recover from more harsh forms of BDSM.  I haven’t heard that aspect mentioned anywhere. Being a practical type of person – that’s the first thing that I thought of.


Here’s a trailer of the movie – which debuted (ironically) on Valentine’s Day.

Oral sex, anal sex were illegal until 1962.  And, the Supreme Court ruled against sodomy bans in its 2003 decision in Lawrence versus Texas – it was still illegal in 14 states.

It was a little weird to hear that Beyoncé and Jay Z enjoy having a Dominant/submissive, BDSM-based sex life.

I read that a lot of women might have a “fantasy” about being raped – but, there’s a huge difference between a fantasy and actually BEING Raped.  I’m sure those same women – would feel differently if that actually happened to them.  Not something I’m interested in.  I like my “Vanilla” sex.  A lot.

In fact, both men AND women dream about being submissive. There was a sex study done about it in 2009. Read the full version – as they might take it down. IDK. It’s called, “Social Dominance and Forceful Submission Fantasies: Feminine Pathology or Power?”

There’s a really good discourse on this movie and about the “Freedom” to engage in BDSM in a review from The Atlantic, written by Emma Green.  She argues whether consent is really enough:

“For people in the BDSM community, consent is the ironclad starting point—but that’s not the end goal of their sexual activities. Because it’s a community that people choose, one with strong norms and mores, it can embrace a set of sexual values, like exploration, play, and experimentation.”

“But for most everyone else—the average Fifty Shades reader and moviegoer included—this isn’t the case. On college campuses and elsewhere, not everyone fully understands and embraces the importance of consent—or gets the basics of sex. And even when people have a sophisticated understanding of sex, American culture offers little to model healthy sexual encounters beyond the threshold of consent.

Because the U.S. is such a pluralistic place, with so many conflicting viewpoints about how people should live their lives, American culture inevitably sends lots of mixed messages about what having a good sex life actually means—or looks like.”

The National Center on Sexual Exploitation has a website, fiftyshadesisabuse.com, that details 50 problems with this disturbing trend in entertainment media.

 

 

 

Alladin’s Magic Weiner

After Aladdin turned 25,  he happily spent exciting days in his palace with his new slave girl, Bianca.  She was hot to trot – for sure.  Life had become very easy for him and he was stress-free and satisfied. The castle was large and he had many employees to offer his every whim.

SLAVE_PRINCESSThis new slave girl, Bianca, was very naughty, however. Sex, sex, sex, that was all she shouted every morning and every night.  This had been wonderful to begin with, but, he finished tired of her sexual orders. He got super tired of her nymphomaniac ways.

There had even been a few times that he couldn’t get his penis hard. ‘Twas embarrassing to have a limp dick. He was – after all – the Prince! Everyone expected the Prince to perform.

She had taken it well. It was like his dream came true but, all he wanted was a few days to rest up. He knew that she would be making efforts to get him beside her, in the sack as soon as she could. He wanted to rest!

He liked the sex and he admired her but he was exhausted and Little Aladdin dreadfully needed a night off to recuperate his stamina. It was not to be and once the maids left, she pounced again and caressed his neck kissing and nibbling.

Shall I caress your magic lamp and see what the genie offers me tonight?,” she giggled sexily. “The genie! Yes, of course,” he shouted, letting her fall down the floor rushing to the clandestine room where he kept the magic lamp. “I’ll be back!”

The sprite was bored and indolent – but hadn’t seen Aladdin for ages, so he paused in his monotony and bowed deeply.”Sir?” he intoned. Aladdin explained his dilemma, “so you see,” he finished, “I just need something that will assist me to keep my slave princess sexually happy until I recover some energy.”

“What you demand is a month-long holiday,” said the genie, “But I suppose this might help.” With a magic movement he waved his hand over Alladin’s penis. It got hard immediately. The genie said that it would support him to take care of the slave, Bianca.  So, Alladin reported for duty.

When Alladin got back to Bianca,the little bitch grabbed hold of his hard pouch and pulled out the thick member. She began to lick it. She licked it up and down and flicked her tongue in such a tantalizing fashion that he just couldn’t take it anymore. She sucked him hardily.  He came and came. He spewed his white cream all over her face. She was delighted.

Then, she said – “Do ME – Do ME now!”

He said, “Give it a rest for five minutes – why don’t you? I AM a Prince – but, am mortal – after all.” He took a nap on the gorgeous four-poster bed.

Bianca went and took a long bubble bath and drank lots and lots of  wine that was made in the Prince’s Parish.  It was really strong stuff.  She got randy in the tub while waiting for the Prince and grabbed a small bottle of shampoo and pleasured herself. She enjoyed herself immensely.

This went on for several hours. The ruckus roused poor Prince Alladin from his sleep several times. He woke up and muttered to himself – that he only wished that this was a nightmare. Alas!  It appeared to be his fate.

She squealed and screamed as she came twenty-one times. The wine, the warm water and all of her coming and coming made her extremely tired. She fell asleep in the bathtub and drowned. The Prince settled down to sleep; pleased he had fulfilled his duty.

Moral of the story: Quit bugging the Prince for sex all the time!

Favorite Way To Get a Blow Job

This is a partial repeat of a post I wrote about a year ago. Enjoy.

I enjoy receiving oral sex. My favorite way to get a blow job is fairly normal for most men.

First of all, there is no ONE way to receive oral sex. When I was younger and a gentle breeze was enough to get me aroused maybe one way was enough. But I am quite evolved past that point. After a certain amount of time and interaction, there are scars on the inside as well as pleasant memories. Both of those combine to make me into something new and unique and no longer the same as I was as a teenager.

Be into it. Seriously. Don’t treat giving a man oral sex as a favor to him. If you don’t enjoy it, or you are not really into it, it will show. Treat it is as something you really do want to do. As something that arouses you, makes you wetter and hotter. Revel in the power you have over him through the attention focused mostly on one part of his body. Whatever it is that works for you, that makes you enjoy giving oral sex, then open yourself to that and let it show to the man you are sucking.

Don’t be a porn star about it. Maybe that works for some guys, but not me. Porn is fun to watch, but it comes across as so fake. I don’t want fake in my sex life. I think there are very few people who would ever say they want sex to be fake in some way (toys may be excluded from that statement).

About technique. There are three things that generate the most sensation for me when receiving oral (all of this is pre-orgasm). The first is slickness. The more slippery your mouth and my skin become, the more I notice and enjoy what is happening. If your mouth becomes dry, the sensation becomes rougher and less and enjoyable to me.

The second thing is depth. I’ve been told (many times) that I am well endowed, and I also know I have been deep throated (but only one person really did that). It isn’t a contest, it is just what you enjoy and testing your limits. Whatever you do, don’t push past your limit. Getting sick at this time really would kill the mood. I am not sure if some guys enjoy the gagging thing or not, but I know I don’t.

If I see a video where the giver is gagging herself on the male actor, I get totally turned off and tune out the video. It is just that bad to me. But I do very much enjoy having as much of my cock inside of the warm and welcoming mouth as possible. One thing that I have noticed helps is using your hand at the base of the cock. Let your fingers get wet so they slide up and down the shaft while your lips slide up and down the shaft and when I close my eyes I can hardly tell where one begins and one ends.

The third thing is the position of the tongue. For me there is only one side of my cock that is truly sensitive to the feeling of the tongue rubbing against it. If I am laying on my back, and my partner is positioned between my legs where she can look up my body to see me, then her tongue is going to hit that side. The ridge the goes up and down the entire shaft and also happens to be where one can feel my cum when it travels up the shaft. I have had many an orgasm when the mouth covered my cock from other angles (my second favorite is 69). I don’t have to have it this way, this is one way that I really like it.

Swallowing? Spitting? It really doesn’t matter to me. But it does make a difference if the orgasm happens in the mouth or if the mouth is pulled away. I think that makes a difference for everyone. If you are a woman, imagine a man is sucking on your clit and the moment your orgasm starts, he pulls his mouth away. If the moment was built up properly, you’ll still have your orgasm, but it won’t be the same or have the same intensity. Does that mean you should let a man cum in your mouth no matter what? Nope, refer back to the paragraph about getting sick. If you honestly can’t handle it, then don’t do it.

Ok. I hope you enjoyed my favorite way to get a blow job. Of course there is still more to it than this. The main things I wanted to stress were getting into the mind aspect, and honestly enjoying it. After that, there are little things that vary from guy to guy, and learning each man’s likes and dislikes just takes a little time and practice.

Zoey’s Orgy Dream Part 2

Continued from Part 1

Later that evening, I got to watch something I have wanted to watch for a very long time. I watched two of the men sucking each other off. I don’t know if it was Frank and one of the other men or if it was the other two men. It didn’t really matter to me who it was. I just wanted to watch. I watched them as they ran their hands over the other one’s chest and stomach. They were really enjoying giving the other one pleasure. It was interesting the amount of joy they received from giving the other one pleasure.

When the men were done, I started kissing the other woman.

I enjoyed running my hands down her body and feeling her soft skin. My fingers explored her tits, even pinching her nipples and feeling them harden under my touch. I felt her stomach shudder and she inhaled sharply when my hand moved down her stomach. I caressed across her ribs and I ran my hands down her back so I could grasp her ass. I could hear the moan in her throat.
She broke the kiss and made me lay back onto the bed.

“I want to taste you.” She told me.

She kissed me timidly. I sensed this was the first time for her to go down on a woman. Shyly, she started to lick my pussy. She would dart her tongue in and out of my pussy. She just seemed to know how I liked to have my clit played with, and she pushed three fingers inside of me at the same time. I couldn’t help but moan and grind my hips so that my pussy pushed against her face.

“Turn around so I can taste you too” I told her.

She positioned herself over me so she could go right back to eating me. She wasted no time pushing her fingers back into my pussy and using her wonderful lips and tongue on my clit.

I wrapped my arms around her legs and used my hands to open the lips of her pussy. I felt nervous because I had never done this to a woman before. I opened my mouth and led with my tongue as I lifted my head straight to her pussy. I inhaled the scent. It was an incredibly strong scent of sex. I had smelled this scent before at times I had gone down on Frank to get him hard enough to fuck me again.

In moments my tongue was fully against the lips of her pussy and I liked the taste. I stopped hesitating and licked her. I pushed my tongue into the folds of her pussy and felt it slide inside. I liked the feel of her pussy around my tongue every time I slid my tongue into her. It was almost as though her muscles were trying to draw my tongue deeper into her.

The things she was doing to my pussy were so intense. There was no chance I could hold back an orgasm. I felt it building and I grew tense trying to hold it back. I wanted to feel her cum on my tongue. I wanted her to push down on my face hard and fuck my mouth with her pussy and just cum on me until she couldn’t breathe.

My hands grabbed her ass and legs even tighter and I pulled her tight against my face just like I wanted her to do on her own. I felt her push her fingers even deeper into my pussy and she started sucking my clit. Her other hand had a death grip on my leg and I realized she was going to cum soon.
I pushed my tongue deeper into her pussy, forcing it in as far as it would go. I felt her pussy pressed hard against my chin and realized her clit was rubbing against my chin. My face was so wet that her clit was easily sliding back and forth over my chin while my tongue flicked in and out of her pussy.

I couldn’t take anymore and I cried out into her pussy when she made me cum. I felt the vibration of her moaning into my clit when she came with me. I felt my body trying to buck against her, and I felt her body trying to buck against me. I had her ass held so tightly she couldn’t possibly move my head and tongue away from her pussy.

In moments I couldn’t take anymore, my clit was getting too sensitive and I pulled my head back. I was just about to find a way to make her stop when she turned her head away from my clit. I could feel her hot breath on the inside of my thigh. She was panting just like I was, and we were both sweating from the pleasure we gave each other. I held her there and she gladly didn’t move while we just continued to tremble with pleasure with our bodies held so closely together.

After a few minutes we both had regained our breath enough to move. She rolled off of me toward the two men she came in with. I realized Frank was on the other side of me when he slid close to me and pulled me into his arms. I turned to face the other three, pressing my back against Frank. His soft wet cock pressed against my ass, while he held me close, as if to pull me into his body, or to reclaim me as his. I smiled in the afterglow of really amazing sex and just relaxed into Frank’s embrace.

Zoey’s Orgy Dream Part 1

At one point in time Frank and I were able to see each other on a regular basis. Circumstances have changed since that time and unfortunately, that is no longer the case. It has been a long time since I have seen Frank. Honestly, a few hours used to seem like an eternity. However, there are occasions that I dream about being with Frank. This happens to be one of those dreams.

At the beginning of the dream, Frank and I have just had very satisfying orgasms. This is strange because most of the time at the beginning sex hasn’t happened yet. Anyway, Frank is above me up on his arms looking into my eyes. We smile at each other, and Frank drops his head so our foreheads are touching. He tells me, “Sweetie, I have to move.” I frown at this statement, but I unwrap my legs from around his legs. I know I was holding him there on purpose because I wanted to keep him on top of me as well as inside of me for as long as I could.

Frank moves off of me and lies on his side with his head propped up on his hand. He has this look in his eyes. I’ve seen this look. I know this look. He has something planned. I ask the question with the look on my face.

He smiles at me and tells me, “I invited some friends over.”

That explains what he was doing at the door. He was making sure it was unlocked so we wouldn’t have to get out of bed to let them in. I roll over so I can press my back against his chest. He knows I want him to hold me and he wraps his arms around me. I love it when he holds me. It’s like he is trying to pull me full length into his body. It always made me feel safe, secure, and loved.

Frank starts to kiss and nuzzle my neck. He latches on with his mouth. I put my hand in his hair to hold him to the spot, begging him with my actions to brand me as his.
A short time later, Frank’s friends showed up. Two men and a woman. Frank and I are still in bed, completely and gloriously naked. The others decide they are overdressed and they begin undressing. I assist the two men, and Frank assists the woman.

I got the better end of this deal. I help the men out of their shirts, and help myself to the pleasure of caressing their bare chests with my fingertips. I can’t resist but to lean forward and kiss and taste their bare skin one after the other.

Each one takes hold of one of my tits as if they are in perfect sync with each other. With a brief look passed between them, they lean forward and each takes a nipple into their mouths. The sensation of having both of my nipples sucked at the same time causes me to shudder uncontrollably. Without thinking clearly, my fingers wind into their hair and I hold them both there.

I remove my hands from their hair and caress their bodies as I work my fingers down to their pants so I can undo the buttons and get their pants off. The feel of their tongues on my nipples and their hands caressing my back, my ass, my legs, and even my pussy are making my pussy throb and I need to feel a cock inside of me soon.

In the back of my mind I know Frank is enjoying taking the clothes off the woman, but at this point in time, I don’t really care.

Both of the men help me get them out of their pants, while somehow always keeping a hand on my skin, and mouths kissing and sucking on me.

I hear the woman moaning and I realize Frank has slid his hard cock into her. I know exactly what she is feeling. I find myself laying on my back and the soft head of a cock pressing against my pussy. I know I have become incredibly wet, and that my juices have mixed with Frank’s cum inside of my pussy. There is no resistance as this man pushes his cock into my already well fucked pussy.

I feel the cock of the other man rubbing against my lips. He wants some satisfaction as well. I enjoy the taste of the cock on my tongue. I start to lick and suck him so that he knows that I enjoy pleasing a man with my mouth.

It doesn’t take long to get the cock in my mouth about ready to explode. I can feel the cum starting to move up his shaft. I have never liked the feel of a man cumming in my mouth so at the last second I pull him out right before he cums. The angle he is at when he releases shoots his cum onto my chest. The man inside of me starts to pump harder because he wants to be able to feel the satisfaction as well.

An orgasm starts to build in me as he pumps harder and faster. I try to hold it off, but it’s building too quickly. I cry out as the orgasm wracks my body.

Continued in Part 2