Are You the One in 100 that Has a High Sex Drive?

If there’s one thing that we can all agree on, it’s that men are a bunch of uncontrollably horny animals who want sex. Now. I mean, that’s what society has taught us.

Not trying to be a copycat or anything – but, I ran across this article on the negatives to having a high sex drive and simply had to re-post it here.
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http://theberry.com/2016/08/22/10-struggles-of-being-a-woman-with-a-high-sex-drive/

They say finding a sexually insatiable woman is like finding a unicorn in the wild, but there are a lot of unicorns out there. Surprise! Women aren’t always the chaste, pure creatures we’ve been asked to be. But what happens when we’re too horny? Sometimes it’s a downright struggle.

1. We have trouble finding a partner who can keep up.

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One of the biggest struggles with having a high sex drive is finding someone with a synced libido. Mismatched libidos can be the straw that literally breaks the camel’s back. We’re no stranger to meeting someone, liking them and then realizing that they have the endurance of a tortoise or the inclination of a 70-year-old man.

2. We always have to initiate.

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There’s nothing wrong with a strong woman who goes after what she wants, but when you’re always the one who has to initiate it starts to get old.

3. Our partners can get lazy.

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When you’re usually the one initiating, your partner can get lazy and think that you’re just always ready to get down. They might just wait until you start coming on to them rather than stepping up and making us feel wanted. It’s a problem.

4. We get rejected.

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Contrary to popular belief, men really don’t want sex 24/7, so when you want sex three times a day and get turned down twice, it starts to sting. Why would any man every reject my sexual advances? It’s definitely not the sexiest feeling ever.

5. We can’t always get what we want.

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Many people believe that women can “catch a dick whenever we want,” in the parlance of ever-classy Amy Schemer. But sometimes, it’s not that easy. If you’re single and want casual sex, you have to worry about STD’s, pregnancy, jerks and all the other unsexy parts of sex. We usually just end up having a solo session rather than going through the trouble.

6. If we want something done, we have to do it ourselves.

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If we can’t get satisfaction from our partners, we do it ourselves. Solo love has never been a bad thing — it makes us masters of our domain, and if we don’t know what we like how are going to tell others to do it to us? We’re no stranger to the local sex shop, and we’ve got at least one or two vibrators in a neon color. We take self-love to a new level and we’re totally happy with spending a Friday night alone.

7. We’re always the Samantha Jones of our friend group.

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All of your friends have SO unoriginally deemed you the “Samantha of the group” and think your sex life is just beyond. They just don’t get how you can have so much sex. And you’re all like, “How are you not?” (but you’re definitely don’t say that out loud). You are, though, always giving your friends sex advice and telling them to new things to try in bed.

8. Society tries to shame us.

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And when you become the Samantha of the group, that can often lead to slut-shaming, which is so not cool. Society will try to tell you that you’re wrong for being openly sexual or even wanting sex at all. You’re constantly torn between owning your sexuality and not wanting to deal with judgment.

9. Men are confused by us.

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Most men wishing for a girl who wants to have sex all day will probably get tired (and chafed) real quick, no matter how much they brag to their dude friends. Either way, we have no problem being open about our sexual appetite, and we know what we want. Some men will find it extremely hot and others can find it extremely intimidating.

10. We’re turned on by everything.

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Your boyfriend puts his hand on your leg? Instant lagoon. Linger on a hug for too long? It’s like, are we doing this or what? It doesn’t take much. Sometimes it even bothers you.

The Seduction of Jolene: Part 2

Continued from Continued From: Part 1

We kissed with more and more intensity. She pressed her body against me as much as I pressed against her. I could feel her rubbing her legs and stomach against my erect cock. I feel her delighting in the feel of my cock as she kissed my lips. My fingers caressed the skin of her back, and her stomach. Inching higher and higher, feeling more and more of her skin under my hands.

I felt her tit under my palm. I felt her gasp with pleasure at the touch of my hand. I squeezed and pressed my lips harder against her lips. She moaned into my mouth and pushed her hips against me. I pulled the bustier down to feel her bare tit against my hand. I felt her small, but erect nipple under my fingertips.

I dared to take a chance. I broke the kiss and moved my lips directly to her nipple. She let me. She let me suck her nipple into my mouth. She let me squeeze and suck her nipple with my lips and tongue. My hand went to her ass and I pulled her tight against my body.

That was her final barrier. She couldn’t take anymore. Her body now controlled her mind, and her body wanted sex as much or more than I did. Her words said everything. I want to fuck you now. Words that were breathlessly spoken, full of her desire. A desire I intended to fulfill.

We quickly undressed and I positioned myself between her legs. I kissed her as I positioned my cock at her entrance. She was so wet. I could imagine her wetness dripping down her ass to the bed. My cock slid into her without any resistance. All the way until my balls were resting against her ass. I held there just enjoying how I felt inside her pussy and enjoying the feeling of her muscles contracting and throbbing against my cock. I knew then she was having a small orgasm just from the first contact of my cock inside her pussy.

She was mine. She had willingly and gladly gave her body to me, and I was going to take my pleasure in it. I intended to make this last and enjoy every moment. I began thrusting slowly and gently. Reveling in the wetness, and how easily my cock slid in and out of her. Each thrust I pushed as deep as my body would allow, knowing that each time I was pressing her clit between us. I maintained this pace until I brought her to another orgasm. Then I held myself inside her to feel her orgasm while I watched her from above.

I let her catch her breath. The orgasm was not too intense, but she still needed a moment. I readied myself to take her. I was ready now to just fuck her hard.

I did. I pistoned my hips and I drilled my cock into her. From the first thrust, my body slamming into her clit, she gasped and panted. For this time, I now owned her and she was at my mercy. Her pleasure was mine for the taking, and I was taking her pleasure. I slammed my body down into her again and again. Each thrust pushing her ass into the bed, making her bounce back each time I withdrew. Her orgasm hit her fiercely, her fingers desperately wanting to dig into my skin. I didn’t relent, but kept fucking her hard. I made her cum and I made her keep cumming on my cock. She had no control over her orgasm, over own body. It was mine, and I was not letting up or giving her a break.

I did eventually let up though. I could feel my own muscles protest the pace I was setting. I pushed into her, holding deep, and pressing my body hard against her clit. Jolene continued to cum, her pussy throbbing around my cock while her pussy squeezed and massaged me. I lowered myself to kiss her neck, and to pinch her nipple with one hand. I stayed still inside her, just enjoying the way her pussy was massaging my cock. I listened to her breathing and trying to catch her breath. I felt her hands on my back, holding me close.

I began thrusting again after she had caught her breath. Gentle strokes again. My lips soft against her neck, gently sucking, and gently marking her neck. She continued to hold me close, letting me know she wanted me right there just like I was. I could feel another orgasm building in her body. I could feel it building slowly, but surely. I kept thrusting, gently, steady, and with the assurance that I would make her cum one more time before I allowed myself to cum inside her. When her orgasm hit, she put her mouth on my shoulder, moaning into my skin, biting gently, and sucking my skin into her mouth. I knew she could taste my sweat and I didn’t care. She was welcome to taste all of me if she wanted. I let her calm down from her orgasm once again. I let her catch her breath.

I released my resolve to not cum. I gave my body permission to just feel the pleasure from her and to release my cum into her body.

I raised up again and began thrusting hard. Not as hard as the first time, but hard enough to hear my body hitting her pussy with every thrust. I felt her pussy wrapped around my cock, squeezing me in every thrust. I heard her moans and gasps of pleasure. I told her I was going to cum. I let it build, and I felt it build. I could feel my cum rising into the shaft of my cock, making my cock feel larger inside of her.

I could feel the point of no return. I could feel my entire body growing tense and the intense pleasure throughout my cock as it stroked in and out of her pussy. The tension built until I couldn’t hold it any longer. My orgasm hit my entire body. My cum shot out of my cock. Spurt after spurt of hot cum shooting through the shaft of my cock like it was massaging the inside of my cock as her pussy was massaging the outside of my cock. Despite how intense my orgasm was hitting me, I could feel her cumming on my cock. Her fingernails were digging into my skin. Her hips thrust up to hold my cock deep inside her. The muscles of her pussy milking all of my cum out of my cock.

It lasted forever, and ended in a moment. I laid down on her, fighting to catch my breath, my chest heaving against her heaving chest. Our sweat mingling on our bodies.

She had to change her mind to get what she wanted. I got what I wanted from before I even saw her.

Do you have a memorable Seduction Story?  

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