Favorite Way To Get a Blow Job

This is a partial repeat of a post I wrote about a year ago. Enjoy.

I enjoy receiving oral sex. My favorite way to get a blow job is fairly normal for most men.

First of all, there is no ONE way to receive oral sex. When I was younger and a gentle breeze was enough to get me aroused maybe one way was enough. But I am quite evolved past that point. After a certain amount of time and interaction, there are scars on the inside as well as pleasant memories. Both of those combine to make me into something new and unique and no longer the same as I was as a teenager.

Be into it. Seriously. Don’t treat giving a man oral sex as a favor to him. If you don’t enjoy it, or you are not really into it, it will show. Treat it is as something you really do want to do. As something that arouses you, makes you wetter and hotter. Revel in the power you have over him through the attention focused mostly on one part of his body. Whatever it is that works for you, that makes you enjoy giving oral sex, then open yourself to that and let it show to the man you are sucking.

Don’t be a porn star about it. Maybe that works for some guys, but not me. Porn is fun to watch, but it comes across as so fake. I don’t want fake in my sex life. I think there are very few people who would ever say they want sex to be fake in some way (toys may be excluded from that statement).

About technique. There are three things that generate the most sensation for me when receiving oral (all of this is pre-orgasm). The first is slickness. The more slippery your mouth and my skin become, the more I notice and enjoy what is happening. If your mouth becomes dry, the sensation becomes rougher and less and enjoyable to me.

The second thing is depth. I’ve been told (many times) that I am well endowed, and I also know I have been deep throated (but only one person really did that). It isn’t a contest, it is just what you enjoy and testing your limits. Whatever you do, don’t push past your limit. Getting sick at this time really would kill the mood. I am not sure if some guys enjoy the gagging thing or not, but I know I don’t.

If I see a video where the giver is gagging herself on the male actor, I get totally turned off and tune out the video. It is just that bad to me. But I do very much enjoy having as much of my cock inside of the warm and welcoming mouth as possible. One thing that I have noticed helps is using your hand at the base of the cock. Let your fingers get wet so they slide up and down the shaft while your lips slide up and down the shaft and when I close my eyes I can hardly tell where one begins and one ends.

The third thing is the position of the tongue. For me there is only one side of my cock that is truly sensitive to the feeling of the tongue rubbing against it. If I am laying on my back, and my partner is positioned between my legs where she can look up my body to see me, then her tongue is going to hit that side. The ridge the goes up and down the entire shaft and also happens to be where one can feel my cum when it travels up the shaft. I have had many an orgasm when the mouth covered my cock from other angles (my second favorite is 69). I don’t have to have it this way, this is one way that I really like it.

Swallowing? Spitting? It really doesn’t matter to me. But it does make a difference if the orgasm happens in the mouth or if the mouth is pulled away. I think that makes a difference for everyone. If you are a woman, imagine a man is sucking on your clit and the moment your orgasm starts, he pulls his mouth away. If the moment was built up properly, you’ll still have your orgasm, but it won’t be the same or have the same intensity. Does that mean you should let a man cum in your mouth no matter what? Nope, refer back to the paragraph about getting sick. If you honestly can’t handle it, then don’t do it.

Ok. I hope you enjoyed my favorite way to get a blow job. Of course there is still more to it than this. The main things I wanted to stress were getting into the mind aspect, and honestly enjoying it. After that, there are little things that vary from guy to guy, and learning each man’s likes and dislikes just takes a little time and practice.

Deep Throat


Some memories stay with you. Even if they seem faded and fuzzy in our minds, they are still there and can still invoke emotions. When I was in college, I spent an intensely sexual week with a woman four years older than I was. That was a pretty big deal for a young man of eighteen.

Sindy and I met in a common area in the dorms. It started with conversation, then with touching, and moved to some really intense making out. Despite being in a more or less public place, our bodies were pressed together, our hands were caressing, and our tongues were intertwined in a dance of lust.

I can feel the heat radiating from her body. The desire brushing against my skin with every breath she exhales. I feel her want and desire in her fingertips through my clothes. I taste the pheromones on her skin with every brush of my tongue.

On another night, we made our way to the sort of privacy of the dorm room (please don’t let the roommate return now). She didn’t want to give in to having sex. Despite how much her body cried to feel me inside of her. She wanted to make herself wait. To make sure we had protection, to make sure I wouldn’t hurt her. At the time I was several years away from discovering there was a dom inside of me waiting to come out. I think she was quite safe.

She was willing to show me her oral skills though. How could I possibly say no?

Now throughout my adult life, I have been told many times that my cock is above average in both length and girth. I do not necessarily trust these statements. I have seen so many scenes in movies and heard so many stories that I think women are likely to appease a man’s ego during the moment (maybe tell the truth later). There was a point where measurements were taken, and compared to some research on the Internet, those measurements would fit at the high end of the average on some charts and above average on others. So maybe there is some truth to the statements that I have above average size. In the end, what really matters to me is that I can use this tool to cause a woman to have really intense orgasms and feel those orgasms rippling up and down the entire length.

I digress. I was about to talk about her demonstration of oral skills. Even in the privacy of the dorm room we spent a lot of time just kissing and touching. All of that kissing and touching was driving us to incredible levels of arousal and desire. I am not sure how we initiated going to the next level.

I just remember being out of my clothes laying on my back. She kissed her way down my body, sliding her body down to get between my legs. She touched and kissed me with confidence that she knew what she was doing and knew I would enjoy what she was going to do to me. She kissed her way around me, touching my rigid cock with her fingers and lips gently and teasingly at the same time. Letting the anticipation build.

At times I watched her, enjoying the sight of this woman’s fingers, lips, and tongue on my cock. At times I laid my head back with my eyes closed in ecstasy.

She took me into her mouth to show me what she could really do. It started slow. Just the head, then back up, then a little more, and back up. And she kept doing this. She kept taking in more and more. I felt that beautiful feeling of more and more of my cock engulfed by her warm mouth. Until I was sure she was taking in more than any woman had done before.

I looked to see what she was doing. I watched her lips wrapped around my cock, sliding down the length of it. Taking in more than I had seen a woman do to me before, and she kept going. She kept taking more and more of me into her mouth. I could hear her breathing and could tell she was focusing on how she was breathing as she took my cock to her deep throat. I could feel the difference. I could feel my cock in her throat as she literally swallowed to accept my cock so deep into her mouth.

I watched as she pushed her head and stretched her lips to take my cock into her mouth all the way to the base. I couldn’t believe it. I knew my cock was in her throat. The feeling was absolutely incredible. It was so hot and it felt like my entire body was consumed with pleasure.

With her skills, it didn’t take her long to make me cum. She pleasured me until my entire body was rigid with pre-release tension. I was panting with lust, desire, and the need to release all of the tension built up within my body. When I came, my entire body convulsed with my orgasm. I felt the shudders from head to toe, and felt my hips pushing my cock into her mouth. Panting changed to gasping and vain attempts to suck in enough air to fill my lungs. When I came, she took me deep again, back to her throat and she swallowed every drop without it getting in her mouth.

I don’t know what her trick was. I have no idea how she was able to take my cock all the way into her throat. I don’t know how she was able to push her lips all the way to the very base of my cock. Back then I didn’t know my size was above average. I just knew that she had done something that no one else had done to me, and I suspected no one else would do for a long time (I am still waiting).