Where Have You Been by Rihanna

Thought you guys would like this Veerry sexy  video by Rihanna. She’s singing,  “Where Have You Been” – from The Island Def Jam Music Group. The choreography in this music video is amazing! You have to give the industry credit for churning out one of the best music videos of all time.

I wonder if Rihanna and Chris Brown really  are into S & M??   Rihanna is not a stupid person.  Her & Chris Brown have got it going on.

Not the first interview to comment on Rihanna and S & M – but, this from the Miss Red Blog:

“”Rihanna has said that she really does love S&M and admits that she is a masochist. The ‘What’s My Name‘ singer told Rolling Stones magazine that she always wants to feel ‘owned’:

“I love feeling like I’m somebody’s girl. I love to be tied up and spanked. Using whips and chains is too planned… you have to stop and look for the whip. I prefer them to use their hands.”

Ok I think every man in the world just got hard there! The singer added that she calls herself a masochist and that she is not proud of that fact. She goes on to admit that she believes her desire to be hurt stems from abuse from her father as a child. She told the magazine that he used to hurt her:

“I was always terrified on Friday because he could come home drunk. That was payday, and half of it went on alcohol.””

And – so it goes.  I would argue that domestic violence and S&M as sexual kink are two very different things. A person can be turned on by pain in a consensual situation with a trusted person. Having someone beat you out of rage is clearly not the same thing.  I can only hope that she’s really into S & M & is simply not confused by the fact that her father beat her as a child.

Even though there’s controversy afoot -Rihanna’s pussydancing in Where Have You Been is truly amazing.